ONE
AT THE BASE OF HERO MOUNTAIN®
Change, it sneaks up so gradually that we hardly notice until one morning, we wake to face a strange image in the mirror—not just any mirror—that magnifying mirror mounted on the bathroom wall. While our mind’s eye pictures a high-spirited, young woman with vibrant eyes, who’s ready to face another day, the image before us requires a squint, then second or third looks.
Are those deepening crow’s feet spreading? Are those actuallypermanent bags beneath our eyes? Several splashes of cold water cannot rinse away the creases around our mouths that have deep- ened from smile lines to fissures. We lift sagging cheeks to produce a momentary youthful expression. But wasn’t it just yesterday that we were nominated for college homecoming queen?
Gray hairs betray us too. We love our mothers, but we don’t want to look like them yet because they are older than we are! However our aging faces reflect a maturity of their own. These realizations alarm us.
OUR WORLD IS CHANGING
It’s one thing to look old and another to feel old. Yet at work, a com- petent career woman in mid-life may notice that the new employees and younger talent at the company, are beginning to tell her what to do. Some have good ideas, yet their methods and management styles are making the older woman feel isolated and irrelevant. She wonders if she should just retire or just hang on a few years more. What else could she do at her life stage? She actually starts feelinglike she can’t keep up. Is this what “old” feels like?
These mid-life shifts bring biological changes, too, that may beget night sweats, hot flashes, pudgy waists, and stubborn pounds. Midlife women may feel like the last runners in a race, trying to stay ahead of the support vehicles, but even then, unable to keep up. At home, as her children leave the family nest, bedtime stories, school activities, needy teenagers, and other mom duties are no longer required. Who needs women like them at this stage when the forties turn to fifties and beyond?
Welcome to halftime.
ONE
AT THE BASE OF HERO MOUNTAIN®
Change, it sneaks up so gradually that we hardly notice until one morning, we wake to face a strange image in the mirror—not just any mirror—that magnifying mirror mounted on the bathroom wall. While our mind’s eye pictures a high-spirited, young woman with vibrant eyes, who’s ready to face another day, the image before us requires a squint, then second or third looks.
Are those deepening crow’s feet spreading? Are those actuallypermanent bags beneath our eyes? Several splashes of cold water cannot rinse away the creases around our mouths that have deep- ened from smile lines to fissures. We lift sagging cheeks to produce a momentary youthful expression. But wasn’t it just yesterday that we were nominated for college homecoming queen?
Gray hairs betray us too. We love our mothers, but we don’t want to look like them yet because they are older than we are! However our aging faces reflect a maturity of their own. These realizations alarm us.
OUR WORLD IS CHANGING
It’s one thing to look old and another to feel old. Yet at work, a com- petent career woman in mid-life may notice that the new employees and younger talent at the company, are beginning to tell her what to do. Some have good ideas, yet their methods and management styles are making the older woman feel isolated and irrelevant. She wonders if she should just retire or just hang on a few years more. What else could she do at her life stage? She actually starts feelinglike she can’t keep up. Is this what “old” feels like?
These mid-life shifts bring biological changes, too, that may beget night sweats, hot flashes, pudgy waists, and stubborn pounds. Midlife women may feel like the last runners in a race, trying to stay ahead of the support vehicles, but even then, unable to keep up. At home, as her children leave the family nest, bedtime stories, school activities, needy teenagers, and other mom duties are no longer required. Who needs women like them at this stage when the forties turn to fifties and beyond?
Welcome to halftime.